Life is an Adventure for Holly Gray

“Lakehead has not only pushed me to be the best I can be academically, but also the best person I can be,” says Holly Gray, who received an Honours Bachelor of Arts and Science in Anthropology in 2024. Above, Holly and her daughter Alexandria celebrate Holly’s graduation.

“In the fall of 2016, I was bemoaning to my husband and my daughter that although I’d been exercising my body, my mind was in the parking lot,” says recent Lakehead grad Holly Gray.

“My daughter said, ‘Oh, mom! Just take a course.’ I said, ‘Great idea, but what course?’ and she replied, ‘Anthropology.’”

That was the start of a new chapter for Holly, whose curious mind and independent streak was apparent even as a child. 

She grew up in the small village of Victoria Harbour on Georgian Bay where she spent her time swimming, skiing, and tobogganing. Holly also earned pocket money by babysitting for 25 cents an hour. Her favourite early jobs, though, were more unconventional. “I worked on horse farms and in a mechanics shop repairing bicycles, lawnmowers, and chainsaws,” Holly says. “I just loved it, my poor mother, however, was mortified because I was the only girl at my high school graduation with grease under her fingernails.”

Holly then earned a Bachelor of Arts at the University of Guelph. She’d hoped to pursue her postsecondary education further, but life and its challenges got in the way—that is until several decades later when she drove to Lakehead Orillia to sign up for an anthropology course. 

As fate would have it, Professor Tim Kaiser was running a mock archaeological dig on campus that day. Holly went over to talk to him and “Dr. Kaiser, who’s a wonderful gentleman, said, ‘Why don’t you join my class?’”

“The course was called Ancient People and Places,” Holly continues, “so I thought that’s good, since I’m ancient—but I was scared because it was a second-year course.”

Her fears were eased after she spotted two other seniors in the class. One of them, Ginny Majury, became her study buddy. Soon, Holly was taking more courses, with the goal of earning a degree, and she and Ginny were forming study groups and providing tea and cookies for the students who came. Off-campus experiences were equally important to Holly. “I went on a life-altering dig led by Dr. Scott Hamilton and Dr. Frederico Oliveira at the Indigenous community of Slate Falls north of Sioux Lookout, Ontario. We were looking at the site of the original community of Slate Falls before they were forced to move from their island to the mainland.”

“Lakehead’s instructors have been outstanding—Dr. Frederico Oliveira is a gem of a man—and it’s a gift to be able to meet the kids and be accepted by them,” Holly says. “Everyone from the cafeteria and library staff to security, students, and professors have treated me with kindness and respect. It’s been an incredible joy.” Pictured left, Holly and her friend Ginny Majury on their graduation day.

As the graduation date drew nearer, Holly applied to be the Voice of the Class speaker at Lakehead’s June 2024 convocation ceremonies, not expecting to be selected.

“I felt that being a senior and a part-time student disqualified me from speaking, then I found out I’d been chosen. I was absolutely honoured and thrilled—I was also absolutely terrified.”

Holly has now embarked on a Master of Environmental Studies degree specializing in anthropology, and she’s even considering doing a PhD. “I’d like to investigate the social, political, and legal ramifications of so many things.”

As Holly said in her Voice of the Class speech, “None of us are too young, nor too old to be agents of change in the world around us. Just try to do things, live through the fear of it, and you’ll be amazed at what a different person you’ll be.”